My notes from my last Man on a Mission session...
I want to talk to you about being a complete man. You’re not just a soul. And you’re not just a body. You’re both, always.
Male and female isn’t a temporary arrangement. Binary sex isn’t a social construct. It’s a creational reality. It stretches from Genesis to the end of the story. You won’t drift through the new heavens and new earth like some disembodied ghost. You’ll rise—body and spirit—still you, still male or female, still fully human.
Scripture never divides body and soul the way our culture does. And it never severs sex from personhood. That matters. Not just theologically, but practically. It shapes how you live, how you suffer, how you heal, and how you relate to both God and others.
So today, I want to talk about what it means to be a whole man—not a soul trapped in a body, and not a body with no soul. A whole man.
And we’ll do that by looking at a story you might not expect: Elijah’s collapse in 1 Kings 19.
Elijah was a man of fire—literally. The chapter right before this one, he calls down fire from heaven. He confronts a wicked king. He slaughters 450 prophets of Baal. He’s the picture of masculine strength: courage, conviction, and clarity.
But when you turn the page, something changes. We don’t see that same man. We see someone running. Someone afraid. Exhausted. Alone. Begging God to take him home.
The contrast is sharp, but it’s real. And every man in this room needs to understand this:
You can be bold one day and broken the next. You can be faithful and still fall apart. You can be used mightily by God and still feel empty inside.
In this story, there is failure. Unbelief is always a failure. But this is also a story of human frailty. And it’s a story of how God meets men where they are—not by ignoring their limits, but by caring for them in their weakness.
After the Conquest (vv. 1–3)
After everything Elijah just accomplished, he gets one threat from Jezebel and runs.
It’s easy to look at him and say, “Come on, man up.” But most of us know the feeling. You fight a hard battle—spiritually, emotionally, even professionally—and the very next day, something small knocks you flat.
The adrenaline’s gone. The strength that got you through yesterday feels spent. And suddenly, fear and vulnerability catch up with you.
This pattern shows up all over Scripture.
David unites the tribes, leads the nation, fights and wins. Then he gives in to lust.
Solomon rules with wisdom, discerns truth between the two mothers, and lets his heart be led astray by his wives.
Peter draws his sword to defend Jesus, then denies Him with cursing to a little servant girl.
It’s easy to be bold sometimes. In some places. I know men who are lions at work and pussycats at home. Maybe that’s you. Maybe you’re respected on the job, confident in your element, but freeze when it comes to leading your wife or disciplining your children.
Maybe you once stood strong, like Elijah, but now you’re in a cave, wondering where it all went.
Victory doesn’t make you immune to fear. In fact, fear often follows victory. Why?
Because the mountaintop is followed by the valley. Life is shaped that. It’s not one ascent after another. After you pour yourself out, you’re vulnerable. Spent. The enemy knows it too. He’s watching for your guard to drop.
You can’t live off yesterday’s triumphs.
Jesus didn’t say, “Ride the momentum.” He said, “Take up your cross daily.”
Every day brings a new battle. Sometimes it’s obvious. Sometimes it’s subtle.
Even the best men falter. Elijah did. David did. Peter did. Maybe you have too.
But that’s not the end of the story. It wasn’t for Elijah.
Under the Broom Tree (vv. 4–5a)
Elijah collapses under a broom tree and says, “It is enough now, O Lord, take away my life.”
That’s not just fear talking anymore. That’s despair. That’s depression. Hopelessness.
Tired men think dark thoughts.
And Elijah was tired—physically, emotionally, spiritually.
He wasn’t thinking clearly. And you don’t either when you’re that depleted.
Those thoughts don’t come from wisdom. They come from exhaustion.
Elijah’s theology hadn’t changed. His strength had.
This is where many faithful men stumble. You can believe the right things, preach truth, fight the good fight, and still find yourself saying, “God, I’m done.”
It’s not always bad doctrine.
Sometimes, it’s just that your tank is empty.
The Puritan Richard Baxter warned that too much sorrow can drown a man’s sense of God’s love. Luther called it an assault from the devil—who whispers lies when you’re isolated and weak.
David Powlison said sometimes, the most spiritual thing you can hear is this: “You are not alone. And God is near—even when you can’t feel it.”
The presenting danger here isn’t heresy. It’s exhaustion. And when a man is exhausted, he starts mistaking feelings for facts. He forgets what’s true.
3. Bread, Rest, Repeat (vv. 5b–9a)
So what does God do?
He sends an angel. But not with a rebuke. Not with a new command. Not with a sermon.
The angel brings food. “Eat.” Then Elijah sleeps. Then the angel does it again.
Bread. Rest. Repeat.
That’s restoration. That’s mercy. And it’s deeply human.
We often over-spiritualize burnout. We act like it’s a sin to be tired. So we push harder, pray more, pile on pressure.
But God doesn’t do that to Elijah.
He knows what Elijah is. And He knows what you are.
You are dust—with breath in it. You’re not just a soul. You’re not just a body. You are both, woven together by the hand of God.
When we forget that, we fall into two opposite errors:
Error #1: Man as a Spirit Trapped in a Body
This view treats the body as weak, dirty, or unimportant. It turns salvation into escape—from flesh, from the physical.
But Scripture says otherwise. God made your body. He called it good. Jesus took on flesh and didn’t cast it off after the resurrection. He still has a body. And so will you.
Error #2: Man as a Machine
This one goes the other direction. It denies the soul. Man becomes just a bundle of desires—a talking animal. No moral weight. No spirit. Just instinct.
If it feels good, it must be right. But Scripture calls that slavery.
One view says the body doesn’t matter. The other says the soul doesn’t exist.
Both are wrong. Both are hopeless.
But Scripture tells the truth: You are body and soul. Not a ghost. Not a machine. A man.
That’s why the resurrection matters. That’s why the gospel doesn’t just save your soul—it redeems your whole self.
So when God feeds Elijah and tells him to sleep, He’s not coddling him.
He’s honoring the way He made him. A man. Body and soul. Whole.
Maybe what you need right now isn’t more guilt or more pressure.
Maybe what you need is to stop pretending you’re more than human—and let God care for you like He did for Elijah.
Remember: Bread. Rest. Repeat.
A Voice in the Wilderness (9b–18)
Elijah is still heavy. Still afraid. Still convinced he’s alone. He hides in a cave. God asks him, “What are you doing here, Elijah?”
It’s not because God doesn’t know. It’s because Elijah doesn’t.
Like many of us after a crash, he’s confused. He’s tired. He feels cut off.
God tells him to stand outside. Then comes the wind—violent, loud. But God isn’t in the wind.
Then an earthquake. Then fire. Still, no God. Then a whisper. A low voice.
Elijah wraps his face. Steps out. And hears it again: “What are you doing here?”
This is how God often speaks to men on the edge. Not in fury. Not in force.
But in stillness.
And what does He say?
You’re not alone. You’re not done.
Elijah says, “I’m the only one left.” God says, “No, you’re not. I have 7,000 more.”
Weariness shrinks your world. Makes you think you’re the last one standing.
That no one else sees. No one else cares. That’s a lie.
The devil loves lonely men. He wants you isolated, cut off from brothers and truth.
But God meets Elijah with quiet truth, not argument. And then, He sends him back.
Anoint kings. Find Elisha. The mission continues.
God doesn’t merely say, “Tough it out.”
He says, “You’re still My man. Get back in the fight.”
This isn’t a story of retirement. It’s restoration.
Conclusion
Some of you are praying for breakthrough while living like fools.
You’re not under attack or, if you are, you've invited through a lack of discipline.
No sleep. No rhythm. No restraint. Your body’s falling apart, and you blame the devil.
Elijah needed bread and rest before he could hear God. So do you.
You don’t need more content or even toughness. You need repentance. And repentance can take the form of a nap.
You need to build a life strong enough to carry the man you’re becoming.
You’ve been fed. You’ve been warned. You’ve been loved.
Now stand up. Own it. Act like a man and call out to God.
Eat. Rest. Repent. Rebuild. Re-enter the fight.
You’re not alone. You’re not done. And the King still knows your name.
Thank you!
Amen. Needed that this AM