Hello Pastor. I would like you to address the mother-daughter relationship. I am a mother of two girls and I have constantly seen, both inside and outside the church, the tendency of mothers to become best friends with their daughters. The daughters know personal things about their mothers, their anxieties, frustrations, sexual relationships, etc. And I have seen teenagers wanting to take their own lives, and most of them come from single-parent families. Deep down, it's scary because you want to be a good mother, but the boundaries have been erased. I see it starting when you see posts from friends where their daughters and sons become the center of the relationship, and the husband becomes a nobody. What can you teach us, and what are the boundaries? How do I know if I'm an authoritarian or neglectful mother? What are the boundaries? My questions seem silly, but that's how we young parents are these days. All the good that God established has been erased, and these suffocating mothers are applauded in social circles in the name of love and a strong bond, leaving you unsure if you're doing things the same way they do or the way God intended. My husband and his brothers were raised by a mother who groomed them all and got very angry when her children started running away from home and getting married. She forced them to take responsibility for running the household and caring for her, and she faked her anxieties and illnesses to keep her children by her side. She hates all her daughters-in-law and can't have a good relationship with any of them.
Hello Pastor. I would like you to address the mother-daughter relationship. I am a mother of two girls and I have constantly seen, both inside and outside the church, the tendency of mothers to become best friends with their daughters. The daughters know personal things about their mothers, their anxieties, frustrations, sexual relationships, etc. And I have seen teenagers wanting to take their own lives, and most of them come from single-parent families. Deep down, it's scary because you want to be a good mother, but the boundaries have been erased. I see it starting when you see posts from friends where their daughters and sons become the center of the relationship, and the husband becomes a nobody. What can you teach us, and what are the boundaries? How do I know if I'm an authoritarian or neglectful mother? What are the boundaries? My questions seem silly, but that's how we young parents are these days. All the good that God established has been erased, and these suffocating mothers are applauded in social circles in the name of love and a strong bond, leaving you unsure if you're doing things the same way they do or the way God intended. My husband and his brothers were raised by a mother who groomed them all and got very angry when her children started running away from home and getting married. She forced them to take responsibility for running the household and caring for her, and she faked her anxieties and illnesses to keep her children by her side. She hates all her daughters-in-law and can't have a good relationship with any of them.
This video is so sad, but this God is so good so wonderful and He will give him, hope and a new story for sure.
Finally.