Teaching Requires Instruction and Example
In Philippians 4:10, Paul writes, “But I rejoiced in the Lord greatly.”
The apostle practices what he preaches.
In verse 4, he urged the Philippians to "Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice!" and now he exemplifies this himself.
Teaching, according to biblical principles, involves both instruction and example. Instruction provides meaning to our example, while our example, if not hypocritical, lends credibility to our instruction. If we solely lead by example, we leave those under our care to draw their own conclusions about our motives. Conversely, if we only provide instruction, we undermine the power of our teaching with the reality of our actions.
That is why in verse 9, Paul instructed them, "The things you have learned and received and heard and seen in me, practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you."
Paul, like Christ, proclaims and demonstrates the truth of God. Christians are meant to both hear and put into practice. It is easier to follow what we hear when we are guided by godly examples.
In 1 Corinthians 4, Paul says:
"For if you were to have countless tutors in Christ, yet you would not have many fathers, for in Christ Jesus I became your father through the gospel. Therefore I urge you, be imitators of me.”
Sons naturally imitate their fathers. This is the framework through which Paul views Christian discipleship. It is not solely confined to classroom instruction; rather, it encompasses life-on-life interaction and living together, with a central focus on the public teaching of the Word.
If you find yourself dissatisfied with the behavior and attitude of those under your care, it is important to first consider whether these issues stem from you setting a poor example.
This principle applies to pastors, parents, and leaders of all kinds. While it may not always be the case, it is often true that those under your leadership are simply reflecting your own example. If this is indeed the case, you can guide them towards repentance by first repenting of any ungodly behavior and attitudes within yourself.