How do I get my spouse to change?
How do I get my spouse to change?
In Episode 17 of This is Foster, I provide a short and partial answer.
“The issue could be disrespect, a porn issue, nagging, negligence, etc.
People want a silver bullet—and gurus, experts, life coaches, and, unfortunately, pastors usually feel like they have to provide it, even if it doesn’t exist.
So a lot of the advice you hear around this question really just ends up being ways to manipulate people.
This can (occasionally) work in the short term. But it will always make things worse in the long run.
The reality is that your options are few if a person doesn’t want to change. They boil down to three potential actions…”
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