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Wow, that's quite a paragraph in the middle… didn't see that coming. But you made your point, sometimes a bit of suffering isn't the worst thing for someone. I'm sorry about your brother, but you have to get to the point where you accept there's only so much you can do for someone.

More broadly, I think this is something men learn, probably more than women, that it can backfire being too easy on someone. When we're told "You have to vote for X, otherwise something bad might happen to these downtrodden people", we learn to be a little skeptical that it's quite so cut and dried, or such a travesty of justice. A little hardship is sometimes just the way life is, and we all get treated wrongly at times.

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