The Importance of Mile Markers for a Discouraged Wife

Housewives often depend on their husbands for "mile markers" to stay encouraged and avoid feeling discouraged.

Let me explain…

The 10k Without Mile Markers

A few years ago, I ran a 10k race. There weren’t any mile markers until the third mile, which is about halfway through the 6.2 miles. When I finally saw that marker, I realized I had been pacing myself incorrectly and still had a long way to go.
It was discouraging, but I adjusted my approach and managed to finish the race.

Looking back, I know I would have felt more encouraged if there had been markers every half mile from the start.

The Connection to a Housewife’s Life

In a similar way, a housewife’s life can feel like running a 10k without mile markers. It’s easy to feel like no progress is being made and that the finish line is far out of reach.

That’s why it’s so important for husbands to routinely remind their wives how the work they’re doing is moving the family closer to the "finish line." These reminders prevent discouragement and help her pace herself.

Practical Examples of Mile Markers

Here are some simple ways to create mile markers in everyday life:

• Getting the House in Order
  If her goal is to organize the house, remind her that being 50% done is a significant accomplishment. Acknowledge and appreciate the progress she’s made.

• Helping a Child Learn to Read
  If she’s working on teaching a child to read, point out the progress the child has made. Highlight small wins, like the child being able to read certain words.

These small reminders can go a long way in keeping spirits high and ensuring that progress feels meaningful.

Why Leadership Matters

Ultimately, by identifying the finish line, you can establish mile markers along the way. But to do this, you have to know where you’re leading your family.

Husbands, the clarity of your vision and leadership helps set the pace for everyone in your home. When you help your wife see the progress being made, you encourage her, and together you move closer to your shared goals.