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The Importance of Sexual Dissimilarity

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Michael Foster
Jun 02, 2023
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Polarity is a key drive in both attraction and arousal.

Hence, it’s our sexual dissimilarity that draws us to each other.

But it’s not just mere biological dissimilarity that draws us. There is an otherness at play well.

They aren’t you.

They are different in aspects of their personality, desires, gifting, and history. These differences are a big part of wh…

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