Finding a Spouse in the World We Actually Live In

Some Realistic Strategies for a Culture That Thinks Marriage Is Optional

Proverbs says, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.” That verse carries two assumptions: a good spouse is a rare blessing, and you actually have to look. Jewels don’t jump into your pocket. They’re mined. Another assumption is that if it’s good to find a wife, it's also good for a woman to be found by a godly man.

That…